In Acts 5, the Apostles rejoiced in suffering. How is that possible? We look at the example of Paul and see that as God moves our hearts to love, we become willing to sacrifice for others' benefit. https://crossingscc.com/how-can-i-find-joy-in-suffering/
Some folks who grew up in oppressive religious fundamentalism learned how to condemn, manipulate, and exclude people. And there is a temptation to use those same tactics as “enlightened” progressives. But love requires more of us.